Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Adjusting well to life back in Japan



The jet lag didn't seem quite as bad coming back this way and we had nothing to do the first few days after we arrived, so the transition was pretty smooth. The boys are very happy at school. They both got a very warm welcome from their friends. Actually they both got tackled by the first kids in their class who saw them....Jolon loved that; Kellan hated it. As usual, the teachers had made a big deal about the arrivals so the kids all knew they were coming on Friday. Jolon got to give each kid the Curious George gummies that Grandpa sent back, and apparently he enjoyed doing that. We gave Kellan's class little Oreo stick cookies with tiny pots of the white creme, which you dunk the cookies into. The parents had never seen that kind of thing so that was a big hit too. Kellan cried while we were there the first few days but stopped as soon as we were out the door. Every morning this week, until today, he would get in the classroom and close his eyes, as if doing that made him invisible. It was a really funny way of reacting to a somewhat stressful situation. Meanwhile his friends kept coming up to him and saying his name, giving him leggos, etc. while he just stood there listening to them with a half smile on his face but his eyes shut tight. Anyway, today he barely looked up at me when I said goodbye and the teachers have assured me that he's been fine after we leave. Although, he's not eating quite as much as he did in America (thank goodness), he and Jolon are both enjoying their brown rice and eggs in the mornings and not begging for waffles as I feared. In fact, they are back to eating rice two or three times a day again and loving it. Kellan, who I think is going to be an even better eater than Jolon actually loved my wild mushroom soup the other night which I couldn't believe....big, slimy shitake mushrooms in a butter, chicken stock and sherry broth. Not typical kid's food, but he ate all of his and as much of mine as I would give him. We're trying to keep the sticker thing going here to encourage Jolon to get dressed in under an hour. Kinda works most days, but it's still the most frustrating part of every morning. The Spider Man toothbrush for Jolon and the Thomas toothbrush which plays a tune for Kellan are making toothbrushing a lot easier. It's hilarious to see Kellan dancing to the music...he's started kicking one leg out like a chorus line girl and bopping around with that goofy smile.

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Questions from Jolon

Jolon and I woke up early together this morning (about 5:45), he rolled over and asked, "Mommy, why do you love me so much?"

Malaina: Because I'm your Mommy. I love you so much all the time.

Jolon: But do you love me when I do bad things?

M: Everybody does mean or bad things sometimes, and I love you no matter what.

J: Cause everybody does mean things sometimes, even you....right?

M: That's right.

J: And everybody makes mistakes sometimes.

M: That's right.

Friday, November 21, 2008

birthday

Jolon has enjoyed all of his birthday celebrations so much. We've been talking parties, presents and cakes for weeks. At school as well, they celebrated with him on the actual day and then today was the school-wide November birthday party, so lots more attention directed at him. Still, I think it's pretty confusing to go from 3 to 4 in one day. Tonight he looked up and asked, "Am I still 4?"

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Jolon's 4th birthday party






Jolon had a great birthday party with Auntie Erin and Peter, Suzie and Vince, and Craig. He got some amazing presents: a glow in the dark skeleton and book about the human body from Grandma Jude, a pillowcase he can color on from Grammy and Grandpa, play-dough toys from Suzie, a snake and pirate towel from Vince, an art book from Craig and Lisa, swords and various ninja goods from Peter and Erin, puzzles and books from us. The pirate cake was a big success. We think Kellan may have actually enjoyed eating it more than anyone else.

Kellan playing with his sushi


Wednesday, November 5, 2008

2 cute things Jolon says:

"That's mines", instead of mine.

He uses the expression "all the day," to mean "too much." As in, "I don't want to wear that shirt all the day," if I ask him to wear a shirt that I like, which he doesn't. Or if I ask him to eat some fruit: "I don't want to eat fruit all the day."

Both of these expressions could easily corrected if I bothered to teach him the correct way, but I think they're so cute, I can't bear to correct him. In fact, I use them the same way he does! Bad Mom...

Kellan

The other day I brought home some English scones from a food festival. I put butter and jam on them and served them for the boys' snack. I was cleaning in the kitchen while they were eating and when I looked up, Kellan, who usually dumps things into his milk and/or dumps his milk onto his food, was very carefully dunking bites of his scone into his milk and then eating them. I was pretty impressed as the traditional way to eat scones is with cream. Going back to his English roots I guess!